> developers fired because "they require too much hand holding" and I don't think the advice should be "speak up" but rather "make at least one friend as soon as you possibly can that you can privately ask questions to so you don't look like an idiot" and I know this advice is better for the individual than the company, but it's the reality. The selection function for new, junior employees is "can they get the things done with minimal hand holding" not "do they ask questions" and I'm not ok with that, but it is the reality and we shouldn't push juniors into situations that would get them fired before they're up to speed.
Thank you for saying this. I haven’t heard it being said anywhere else, but knowing people that you can DM and ask about things first is “socially” a better strategy than an ask tons of questions in a public thread. What’s also worked for me is to have a private channel meant only for developers (no manager, PM etc. Just devs, free to ask any question without judgement).
People instinctively assume the junior person asking questions is less competent.
Thank you for saying this. I haven’t heard it being said anywhere else, but knowing people that you can DM and ask about things first is “socially” a better strategy than an ask tons of questions in a public thread. What’s also worked for me is to have a private channel meant only for developers (no manager, PM etc. Just devs, free to ask any question without judgement).
People instinctively assume the junior person asking questions is less competent.